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May I use your toilet, please?

Many Japanese houses have electronic toilets these days – though not everyone, as some may have noticed…
This is something interesting about Japanese culture: in English one could ask “May I use your toilet, please?”, or teenagers might say rather plainly “Can I use your loo?”. In Japanese the word use is just too visual, so they prefer the following two phrases. (Very useful to know).
トイレを借りてもいいですか。
トイレをかりてもいいですか。
toire o karite mo ii desu ka
May I borrow your toilet, please?



Note the little fountain above the cistern – very Japanese!


トイレを貸して下さい。
トイレをかしてください。
toire o kashite kudasai
(literally: Please, lend me your toilet.)
May I borrow your toilet, please?


This is what you call ‘a relief’ to know.

Japanese overseas: the bathroom

Recently we were asked about the possibilities of having a Japanese home-stay and it brought back memories of Japanese exchange students and visitors settling into a new environment. Many people have had great exchange experiences – some have had unpleasant ones – but there seems to be a need for more precise information for these exchange students to help the visit go smoother. We will build up a section of pages giving information about exchange settling-in situations.
 
 

There is a big difference between a Japanese bathroom and a non-Japanese bathroom: the Japanese bathroom is water-proofed and it has a large built-in drain. Non-Japanese bathrooms often do not have drains in the floor boards outside the tub. This is a gigantic difference. 

We remember the happy Japanese bather throwing buckets of water all over himself, while the hosts were downstairs waiting for him to come to dinner… The leaking downstairs ceiling, the wet carpet in the corridor as well as water down the stairs led to some frustration and quite some expense…
 
 
 
 
 
 
Another more common error is that hot water appears to be in seemingly endless supply in Japan, while in other countries hot water may come from a hot water cylinder or tank. One visitor’s bath may leave the rest of the family without hot water for the evening… and a power bill. Please, just show your visitor where the hot water cylinder is and explain in simple English the limitations of the situation. Your student will “get” the idea. It may be a shock though for them to discover that water and electricity are limited elsewhere in the world. Enough said.

 





 



 

 

Often in Japan the hand basin is outside the Japanese bathroom – close but separate.








 

 

 

 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 




 

Your visiting Japanese female student will turn up with her hairdryer and her one-tonne-weighing suitcase thinking she is travelling lightly. She will imagine that Australasian power points are the same as American ones, so you will need to show her. The power strength is similar to European power supplies, except that the plugs are very different. Most shops sell adapters. By the way, Asian hair is very thick, so it takes a long time to blow-dry your student’s hair and she doesn’t want to look “damp” – watch your power bill!

 

We don’t remember seeing a heater in a bathroom in Japan, nor did we see power-points. However, anything electric there was built-in and sealed off on account of short-circuiting. They did have a bathtub warming system and even a pump system for recycling hot water. More about the Japanese bath later. 
 
Mind you, our bathroom power-points are all individually switched and fused.
We could write a book about electricity usage by Japanese in general. Unbelievable! Someone once compared Japan with The land where the sun never sets”, because there seems to be no darkness in Japan. Never mind. Another day; another page.
 
 

 

 

 

 

Many Japanese homes have electronically-operated toilets with electronic flushing, bidet facilities and even built-in lights. Your Japanese visitors may feel they have plummeted into the last century, so be gentle with them. Mind you, not every toilet is like that. There are also ‘older-style toilets…’




 

Usually the Japanese toilet cistern is modeled on a hand wash basin, so fresh water flows into the basin and will become the grey water for the next flush. You may have to explain that you have a separate hand basin.
 

also:  toilet paper  ほうたい  hōtai

 



 
 
 
 
 




 

 

Because of the change in diet when moving to a western country, Japanese youngsters tend to put on some weight. It happens. As there are not so many stairs and the pace of living is slower, those pounds tend to linger. Invariably these deposits disappear once your student returns to Japan again.





 

 

 

 
 
 



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In the last few years taps in older homes have been replaced and now the mixer tap is more common. What is important is that the Japanese language has two different words for hot water and for cold water. Hot water is in the bath, the jug and your tea and cold water is in the sea, the river and in your glass during dinner.
 



Towel rails tend to be electric these days.


 
 
 
But no, there is more! 
The most important item in any bathroom:
 
 
These are about all the items one could find in a bathroom. We’ll give bathing a separate page. Again, be prepared for Japanese people leaving the lights on all over the place – even when they go to sleep! They tend to have no idea about electricity and the costs, and they use hot water as if it comes from the sun!
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Apartment estates 団地 だんち danchi


apartment estates  団地 だんち danchi


apartment estates  団地 だんち danchi


apartment estates  団地 だんち danchi


apartment estates  団地 だんち danchi


apartment estates  団地 だんち danchi


apartment estates  団地 だんち danchi


apartment estates  団地 だんち danchi



For those of you who are interested in kanji:




Up-market apartment マンション manshon

The so-called  マンション manshon derives its name from the English word mansion, which is originally a house on one of those grand English gentry estates. These Japanese apartments are nothing like them, but the word indicates to Japanese buyers an upmarket living place – upmarket from the humdrum だんち danchi.  Interesting to know that the English word estate is now also used in city environments, but usually associated with down-market living.


マンション  manshon

Traffic and underground access are very important.


マンション  manshon


マンション  manshon


マンション  manshon

Of course, this is the drawing. One also needs to imagine the land on which it is built. Again, one can only imagine the space. The reality is that there are possibly five blocks close by with a noisy road in between. The huge cost reflects the quality of the building and the location.




マンション  manshon


マンション  manshon

Those ubiquitous cables were not in the drawing, of course.


マンション  manshon

Major money.

マンション  manshon

Japanese dishwashers しょっきあらいき

食器洗い機 しょっきあらいき 
shokki arai-ki, dishwasher

Japanese kitchen space often dictates the size of the appliance. Also there may not be all that many people needing the appliance in the first place.


This seems to be the size that we are more familiar with in a western kitchen.










Sometimes one has to wonder if the cleaning of the appliance is not more work than actually cleaning the dishes by hand. There’s a thought. Is it a status symbol?





Smart design though: “you just Gota have it!”



コンパクト除菌ミスト
こんぱくと じょきん みすと
konpakuto jokin misuto
(compact sterilise mist)
compact with sterilising mist


National  コンパクトで充実機能
National  こんぱくとで  じゅうじつきのう
National konpakuto de jūjitsukinō
compact with full functionality
小さく置ける大きく開く
ちいさくおけるおおきくひらく
chiisaku okeru ookiku hiraku
(little take up space – big open up)
Space saving wide opening

That pan would fill up with water in no time! Oh well, it is a demo for size maybe.

Also: if chopsticks are made of wood, you still would have to wash them by hand… Would you put your expensive Japanese porcelain, or your expensive Japanese lacquer ware in the machine – not really. There is nothing like the good hand-at-the-sink wash.


Not funny, is it?! 

All parents seem to think it is a very useful skill to learn though. You’re doing a brilliant job! Great sink to work at!




We would love one of those glass ones at home, so we could all watch the dishwasher wash the dishes. We would save time washing of course, but we would have time to watch. Unfortunately, these glass ones are only shop demo models.

Kitchen 台所 だいどころ

Kitchen  台所 だいどころ


What to say about a Japanese kitchen? Well, quite a lot really. There are a few major differences that Japanese kitchens share with their “western” counterparts. If you quickly scroll up and down, you would notice some things in common between all these pictures:

  1. You cannot see outside.
  2. The neon light is on all day long.
  3. The string with the bead to switch on the light.
  4. The bars on the windows (where to go in case of fire?)
  5. The dining table in the middle.





What you cannot see in the picture, but what you do experience when in Japan: the absence of men in the kitchen. It is a woman’s domain. Having said that: we know of a couple (the man was a high powered courtroom judge), where the man would come home later at night and he would cook dinner for the whole family (teenager family) and she would sit on a chair next to the counter and talk to him about all sorts of household matters, life in general, sometimes about what she had happened in the neighbourhood, but most of all “the meaning of life”. He was an amazing cook and she loved it.




This picture has all the ingredients mentioned above. But the place has a friendliness and a homeliness and a cleanliness next-to-none. This is the kitchen where a happy housewife lives and – let’s face it – if Mum’s happy, the family is happy!




This is a more modern kitchen, but you can see that the within-arms-reach has already moving in. It is the practicality of every day.




This kitchen still has a more old-fashioned, but really practical trough sort of kitchen sink. 



A brand-new, unused kitchen and yet bars and opaque glass. It’s a pity that this arrangement is often the result of the Japanese need for security and privacy.



Looks very homely, clean, welcoming, really… quite practical. Still: bars, opaque, neon light-with-string and bead… This photo demonstrates another more subtle but perhaps essentially Asian, if not Japanese, difference: all the small crockery. Each little dish must be in a separate bowl, cup, or dish. 

The western idea “put it on a large plate and cover it with an all-covering meat sauce” is just not present. Japanese cooks do have sauce (teriyaki sauce is one to die for!). It is the idea, that tastes should be separate at least until after the tongue, when they are joined in the stomach. What’s the point of having taste buds, if it is all stirred together? Now there’s a point! Japanese ONE, western NIL.



A homely kitchen where Mum can work efficiently surrounded by her favourite things.



The large kitchen sinks are a practical part of a kitchen.




The microwave lives here; the reheat ”ovenette”, the rice cooker, the hot water jug, the rubbish sorting bins. They’re all there.



Note that Japan has the American power supply set-up: 110V with two prongs on the plug.



Extractor fan or range hood.



And now we come to the major difference that the photos don’t show; the older kitchens have a lived-in feeling: Mum’s home. The modern kitchen has an emptier look; Mum’s at work. Dad and Mum can both work long hours and that must be very stressful. Teenage children can be at “juku“, so it all adds to stress. If it is an extended family, Grandma may do the cooking, so it would be her domain and her preferences that would matter.

The modern Japanese family will often buy in the cooked food on the way back from the office, re-heat it in the microwave, or they would simply eat out. Maybe that it is not such a Japanese difference, but more a “new generation” difference as also in western society more and more people eat out. Cooking has become more of a “hobby” for many, but not a necessity for all.

Another fact of life is that the average Japanese family is four: Dad, Mum and two children, so a large kitchen is less important and with even smaller families that would be even more true. Maybe larger children’s bedrooms is a more practical need. Who knows.

Don’t worry too much about your kitchen set-up though. It’s the heart that beats in the kitchen that matters.